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Ocean County Family Lawyers Discuss Importance of Establishing Paternity

Children have the right to know who their father is, just as fathers have the right to know if they are indeed the fathers. From a non-financial standpoint, this basic knowledge provides not only insight into an existing medical history, but supports family ties that can lead to an ongoing healthy and nurturing relationship between a child and his or her father.

Establishing paternity identifies the father’s side of the family and encourages contact with other relatives, like grandparents, uncles, aunts, or other family members. It also increases opportunities for children to learn about and appreciate their cultural heritage.

The legal team of The Bronzino Law Firm LLC has extensive experience helping mothers, fathers, and children establish paternity in Ocean County and communities like Brick, Asbury Park, Sea Girt, Point Pleasant, Spring Lake, Neptune, Toms River, and across the Jersey Shore. Our firm believes that families are stronger when both parents are involved, and strives to protect the legal rights of our clients as parents. We offer highly personalized legal solutions which address the needs and concerns of our clients. Our qualified family law attorney keeps clients informed and involved throughout the legal process.

Call our office at (732) 812-3102 today. To discuss your paternity, custody, visitation, child support or other family law needs and concerns in a free and confidential consultation contact Peter J. Bronzino today.

How Does an Unmarried Person Establish Paternity in Toms River, NJ?

Paternity New Jersey can be established in two ways: either the father admits to fathering the child or a DNA test must be performed. If a child was born to a married couple, paternity is assumed.  For unmarried couples, legal paternity must be established. When a father agrees that the child is his, he signs a document for “voluntary acknowledgment.” If he doubts he is the baby´s biological father, he should not complete the Certificate of Parentage form, and the court system will help him take steps, including genetic testing, to establish whether or not he is the father.

Either parent may request a DNA test. Or, it can be required by the county office or ordered by the court. Both parents and the child must be tested.  If the test scores 95 percent or higher, the man is presumed to be the father.

Once the paternity test establishes who the biological father is, the birth certificate will be amended to include the biological father’s name. NJ Rev Stat §9:17-53 (2013)

Is there a Statute of Limitations on Establishing Paternity in NJ?

The New Jersey Parentage Act states that a paternity action must be brought within 5 years after the child’s 18th birthday or by 23 years of age – unless there is a justifiable reason as to why it did not happen.

It is not uncommon for a man to be led to believe he is the father of a child that is not biologically his, just as it is not that unusual for a man in a committed relationship with the mother, to assume the role of a child’s father that is not biologically his.

More than ever it is not that unusual for a father to learn that the child he has been ordered to provide child support for is not his biological child. Instinctively, it would be equitable to assume that a man who is not the biological father of the child should not have to pay child support once paternity is negated.

Not all mis-attributed paternity situations are deliberate, of course; some are unintentional and involved women who may have had multiple partners during time of conception and simply can’t definitively determine who the father is except by DNA testing. Other cases involve welfare and paternity fraud: a father’s name, whether or not he is the real father, must be provided as a prerequisite to receiving public assistance.

DNA testing methods such as a SWAB or Genetic Identity test conducted at local accredited testing centers, are reasonably priced and means establishing paternity is easier and more reliable than in the past.  For this reason, most paternity matters are settled prior to child custody, child support, visitation, etc,.

Lawyers for Establishing Paternity in Brick, Sea Girt, Point Pleasant and Spring Lake, NJ

At The Bronzino Law Firm LLC we know how stressful these situations can be, and we are dedicated to providing highly attentive, effective, and knowledgeable legal counsel to each of our clients. We do not offer a one-size-fits-all approach. Instead, we get to know each of our clients and their needs and concerns in any paternity and child support. We pride ourselves on keeping our clients informed and involved in the legal process, and being able to find creative and unique solutions to any child custody issue.

To speak with us today in a free and confidential consultation, please contact us online or through our Sea Girt, Point Pleasant and Spring Lake, NJ or Brick, NJ offices at (732) 812-3102.

Bird's Nest Child Custody Arrangements Ocean County NJOne of the most difficult issues to decide during any Ocean County divorce or legal relationship dissolution is that of child custody and parenting time. Often, both parents want to play an active role in the lives of their children, and while a shared custody 50/50 arrangement may be the fairest thing for the parents, it can often be difficult for the children involved to constantly move back and forth between the homes of their parents.

However, there is a type of child custody arrangement that has been growing in popularity which addresses this issue specifically. Known as “nesting arrangements” or “bird’s nest custody”, this type of child custody allows both parents frequent and regular access to their children, while importantly maintaining the stability of the children’s lives.


What is a Nesting Arrangement in Ocean County?

In a nesting arrangement, divorced parents take turns living in the home of their children, referred to as “the nest”. This regular arrival and departure of the parents form a single home is what inspired the name of bird’s nest custody, as it is akin to “birds alighting and departing the nest”, a quote from a Psychology Today article on the topic of nesting arrangements.

Bird’s nest custody has the obvious benefit of maintaining only a single household for the children, preventing the complications, difficulties, and disruption more standard shared parenting time agreements can cause to the lives of the children. However, bird’s nest custody presents obvious complications for the parents involved, and probably won’t work in every situation.


Requirements for Bird’s Nest Custody in Ocean County

In order for a bird’s nest custody arrangement to be successful, parents will need to meet several important requirements.

  1. Willingness to Cooperate – As a nesting arrangement will greatly increase the need for parents to work together, i.e. plan for expenses, create schedules, discuss the daily lives and needs of their children, parents who enter into a nesting arrangement will need to be able to set aside your differences, and accept the fact that nesting arrangements are in the best interests of your children, and not necessarily your own.
  2. Sufficient Financial Resources – Nesting arrangements tend to be more expensive than typical shared custody arrangements since parents will need to support the expense of “the nest”, as well as private residences for each parent for when they are not living in the nest. While some parents opt to alternate between a single shared private residence and the nest, this arrangement poses obvious complications for a divorced couple.
  3. Clearly Defined Schedules – Parents opting for bird’s nest custody will need to make sure that they have a clearly defined schedule for when each parent will be residing in the nest, and also respect that schedule and the other parent’s agreed-upon parenting time. If one parent regularly infringes upon the other parent’s parenting time by arriving unannounced, or calling the home frequently for updates, it can cause a great deal of strain on the nesting arrangment.
  4. Clearly Defined Boundaries – It has also been found that most successful nesting homes have a private space for each parent when they are in residence. While nesting arrangments are beneficial to the children, they are sometimes difficult for the parents, so having a private and personal space for each parent in the nesting home can be important to their comfort with the arrangement.


Nesting Arrangements in an Ocean County Divorce

While some family law courts will order temporary nesting arrangements during a divorce, for example to give both parents time to sell the family residence and find residences of their own, permanent nesting arrangements will almost never be ordered by the courts, as they recognize the many difficulties they can pose to parents whose relationship may not support the success of such an arrangement.

Instead, parents who are interested in bird’s nest custody must voluntarily and mutually agree to such an arrangement. If you believe you can financially support a nesting arrangement, and work with your former spouse in a healthy manner focused on the best interests of your children, then bird’s nest custody can be a potentially very positive arrangement for you and your children. Speak with your Ocean County divorce attorney about your options regarding drafting, and securing, a bird’s nest custody agreement.


Contact an Ocean County Child Custody Attorney Today

At Bronzino Law Firm, we have extensive experience helping clients across Spring Lake, Toms River, Point Pleasant, Brick, and the greater Ocean County area to successfully resolve their divorce and related issues like child custody, child support, alimony, and division of assets and debt.

Attorney Peter Bronzino strongly believes that by keeping each of his clients highly informed and involved throughout the legal process, he can better understand their unique needs and concerns, and work towards securing a resolution which best takes those needs and concerns into account. The smaller size of our firm allows us to develop personal and attentive relationships with each of our clients, while charging fair and reasonable rates for our services.

To speak with our firm today in a free and confidential consultation regarding your divorce, your child custody and parenting time agreement, or whether or not bird’s nest custody may work for your family, please contact us online, or through our Brick, NJ office at (732) 812-3102.